Day 12: Tell us about a humorous BDSM/kink experience you’ve had. If you haven’t had one, talk about aspects of kink/BDSM you find funny.
After reading some of the others’ posts on BDSM & humor, I realize I may actually be a bit of a curmudgeon about it, I guess, as I don’t actually find much about it “funny.” The best scenes, to me, are the straight-up hard ones, or the erotic ones, the hardcore, the intense, the scary or physically taxing or brutal and transcendent ones that drive me into a different space than I can find in vanilla life.
Oddly enough, though, I do laugh sometimes during a scene, in fact maybe even frequently, but that is more of a reaction to whatever brain/body chemistry is going on, and not because I actually find whatever we’re doing to be “funny.”
That said, it’s not always pain and misery when we play. It is, at times, just that: play. The kinds of scenes where we are laughing and playing mostly happen when we play with Ad, though, as both W and I prefer a different kind of intensity, and Ad doesn’t enjoy that kind of play. He’s a cut-up, and finds humor in everything, BDSM included. So playing with him is usually a good release for me, a time when I can be silly and playful and bratty, something I seldom am with W. Still, I wouldn’t call that “funny”–just good fun.