30 Days of Kink: Day 12 – Humor

Day 12: Tell us about a humorous BDSM/kink experience you’ve had. If you haven’t had one, talk about aspects of kink/BDSM you find funny.

After reading some of the others’ posts on BDSM & humor, I realize I may actually be a bit of a curmudgeon about it, I guess, as I don’t actually find much about it “funny.”  The best scenes, to me, are the straight-up hard ones, or the erotic ones, the hardcore, the intense, the scary or physically taxing or brutal and transcendent ones that drive me into a different space than I can find in vanilla life.

Oddly enough, though, I do laugh sometimes during a scene, in fact maybe even frequently, but that is more of a reaction to whatever brain/body chemistry is going on, and not because I actually find whatever we’re doing to be “funny.”

That said, it’s not always pain and misery when we play.  It is, at times, just that: play. The kinds of scenes where we are laughing and playing mostly happen when we play with Ad, though, as both W and I prefer a different kind of intensity, and Ad doesn’t enjoy that kind of play. He’s a cut-up, and finds humor in everything, BDSM included.  So playing with him is usually a good release for me, a time when I can be silly and playful and bratty, something I seldom am with W.  Still, I wouldn’t call that “funny”–just good fun.

Playing with Ad

2 Comments

  1. CyberLizard says:

    I just had something quite funny happen last weekend. I was chasing my girlfriend around a hotel room (she can be quite the brat) with a coil of rope that I was hitting her with. I missed and the rope whacked my penis!!! I vastly prefer doing the hitting, not being hit ;-)

    1. piecesofjade says:

      LMAO…I’ve heard stories often about Tops whacking themselves accidentally. And us bottoms always go, “Oh no! Poor you!” But secretly…we do get a little giggle.

      OMG that DOES remind me of an actual funny story (mostly me being a brat with a local super Domly-Dom (said with love and affection) type.) Huh. May have to revise my post!

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