As those of you who know me in “real life” know, I work in marketing, media & public relations. So my initial instinct when composing this post was to “spin” it in as palatable a way as possible. To couch it in terms of needing time to work on the blog redesign that I have been contemplating for so long, and make promises to come back with something new and cool “very soon!

And that may be true. I might finally do the redesign. I might come back and move this space to my own domain, as I have wanted to do for a very long time. But honestly? I’m just tired right now. Tired and interneted-out and I need a serious break. I’ve been doing this consistently for more than four years, and prior to that for several more.

I need some space. Some quiet.  A break.  This isn’t melodrama. This is just me, honoring my self, and recognizing my need for space from the world as-it-exists-from-behind-this-keyboard for a while. I am sure it won’t be long. It’s hard for me to leave this for long, I know that. Or it could be a while.  I am planning on a month. But who can say?  I don’t want to make any promises, or place any obligations on myself, because that will create more stress, and right now? I have enough of that, thankyouverymuch.

So…for the next little while…I am on hiatus, at least in this space. You may still see me around Fetlife a bit, and probably Facebook now and again, but for the next month or so, I am in hibernation mode.

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  1. We know what it’s like to need a hiatus. We’ve blogged near-daily for more than a year. Enjoy your break, and when you return we’ll be happy to get caught up with you.

  2. mskjoy says:

    Enjoy your time! I might be a little selfish cause I will miss you and reading ab

    1. mskjoy says:

      *About you. Oops hit reply on my tablet too quick! Have fun!

  3. Enjoy your break, I know I enjoy taking a little break every once in a while.

  4. kara says:

    Enjoy your time off. I’m miss you. Can’t wait for you to come back so I can envy all those HOT pairs of shoes you like show off ;)
    Kara XOXOXO

  5. Sabrina says:

    I will miss you! But have a nice time away from the Internet, sometimes it really is necessary.

  6. Best of luck and enjoy your rest. We’ll be here when you get back


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