Category: A Poly Life
Perspective
There’s a lot of things that I like about this image, one of which is the surprise of getting to see my bird from a fresh perspective. Sometimes I forget he’s there, my hummingbird, and seeing him is a jolt – a nice one: “Ooh pretty!” I like my shoulders…
Business in the front, party in the back
And oh what a party it was! I wore this dress, and some a-MAZ-ing pink stilettos that actually GLOWED in the dark, to a play party with both my guys Saturday night. I got some lovely marks and had a load of fun. I think the guys did too. Being…
Tree Hugger, Part Deux
Another hike, another tree, two big hands this time…but it’s not my butt I love in this image – it’s the thoughtful, amused way they are considering their handiwork that cracks me up. (And no, the handprints never really did pop. I’ve decided tree-hugging maybe needs to be a paddle…
One Hot Weekend
Oh that could be taken so many ways. This past weekend, it can be taken in all the ways. Hot House. The A/C went out at our house Thursday and we couldn’t get it serviced until Tuesday, after what were forecasted to be 95+ degree temps over the 4th. We…
I feel good.
I feel good, and excited about the future – romance, sex, kink, friends, family and travel. I feel like things are rounding a corner, and round that corner it’s easy to peek into a future that looks brighter, less-traumatizing, healthier, happier. Maybe having (hot) sex on the regular helps with…
Weekend Happenings
This sunburn, on top of these bruises… These cane marks… And this smile… All happened this weekend. I planned to do an actual write-up on the actual happenings, but my laptop died and I’m too lazy to go downstairs and get the cord – so I’m writing on my phone.…
It’s been a few heady days.
I’m up at 5 a.m. because I realized, late late last night, that I haven’t written or posted anything since…Sunday? I’d say I’m just crazy busy (and I am!) but it’s not entirely that. I had time last night when I could have sat myself down and written something. And…
Anticipation 3
Being poly/having multiple partners – if one doesn’t live with both/all – is (often) a game of anticipation. It can be both sweet and, while maybe not bitter, at least frustrating: a delicious ache of longing for the one(s) you aren’t with, even as you enjoy the time you are…
Whack Board
I promised I’d tell the tale of my red bum. Well, my first red bum. There’s since been more bottom-reddening events, much to my immense pleasure, but this is a fun story that I’ve been meaning to share. So. Let me preface this by admitting that I have the worst…
Collage
I already almost forgot to post today – that’s how out of practice I am! But I was saved by K, my…I don’t know what to call him, yet…reminding me to do so. So what is this that K and I are doing? We’re seeing each other, and kind of…