Category: 30 Days of Kink
30 Days of Kink – Day 14: Real Life vs Fantasy
Day 14: How would you say real life BDSM/kink varies from fantasy BDSM/kink? If you haven’t experienced real life BDSM/kink how do you think it might differ? Thru kink I have been able to live out some of my deepest, darkest fantasies. Sometimes, the reality is even hotter than the…
30 Days of Kink: Day 13 – The Appeal
Day 13: Explain as best you can what the appeal of kink/BDSM is to you? Why are you drawn to what you’re drawn to? I’ve been pondering this question for awhile now. The easy answer is, “It turns me on.” And that’s certainly true. It makes me hot, it makes…
30 Days of Kink: Day 12 – Humor
Day 12: Tell us about a humorous BDSM/kink experience you’ve had. If you haven’t had one, talk about aspects of kink/BDSM you find funny. After reading some of the others’ posts on BDSM & humor, I realize I may actually be a bit of a curmudgeon about it, I guess,…
30 Days of Kink: Day 11 – Ethics
Day 11: What are your views on the ethics of kink? Many others have discussed this topic, and in depth, with a lot of thought and intelligence (you can find some of those listed below.) I kinda wanted to be that person when I approached this question…but honestly, I’m not. …
30 Days of Kink: Day 10 – Limits
Day 10: What are your hard limits? I think I’ve always approached the topic of limits backwards, even before I realized I was doing it wrong. My kinky world and mind has always been wide open, sometimes even more than I am comfortable with sharing. I’ve always been eager to…
30 Days of Kink: Day 9 – Music
Day 9: Post a kink related song or music video you enjoy. I have a whole playlist of songs that get me going when we scene, but I don’t know how many have “kink related” lyrics. Most just have a beat or a line that puts me in that headspace……
30 Days of Kink: Day 8 – Image
Day 8: Post a kinky image you find erotic. I guess I could look for images from Creative Commons to find something to post here, but, though it makes me feel a little self-conscious to admit it, I have a whole lot of images that I find incredibly erotic right…
30 Days of Kink: Day 7 – Favorite Toy
Day 7: What’s your favorite toy? Are we talking sex toy or BDSM toy? I’ll go with BDSM toy, since this is 30 Days of Kink. That’s a really hard one to call. I both love and hate all of W’s toys, all of his implements of misery, because he…
30 Days of Kink: Day 6 – Weird Sex
Day 6: Describe your weirdest/most interesting sexual fantasy. God, I have so many sexual fantasies, and so many way out there fantasies, that it would be hard to pick just one. But I guess if we’re going for strange, the “weirdest” would be the alien-fuck fantasy. In it I am…
30 Days of Kink: Day 5 – Kink for the First Time
Day 5: What was your first kinky sexual experience? If you haven’t had one yet, talk about what you hope to have happen. Although my first husband and I had some pretty rough sex, and he held my wrists or pinned me down a few times, my first deliberately kinky…