30 Days of Kink – Day 22: Healthy Relationships

Day 22: What do you think is important in keeping a BDSM relationship healthy? How does it differ from a vanilla relationship? I struggled with this one a bit, because I really am of two minds here. On the one hand, I want to say, “BDSM relationships are special, and…

30 Days of Kink – Day 21: Literary Influences

Day 21: Favorite BDSM related book (fiction or non-fiction.) I actually misread this when I started writing it (my bad for not putting the question at the top of the post immediately.)  So I answered this as if the question was what BDSM-related book has most influenced me. It took…

Sinful Sunday – Picture Perfect

As I was looking for the images that I posted in my blog for this post, I ran across the one that I had been shooting for when we started the play session that day (you can see more about that whole day here.) I’d wanted something simple, showing off…

Alphabet Challenge – Q is for Queeny Park, Quiet!, Quarry & Dairy Queen

These Alphabet Challenge days are nothing if not fun. This time we got to introduce W to a park he’d never been to. I want to say it is in an area of St. Louis that he’s seldom been in, either, far West County. For me, heading out to Queeny…

30 Days of Kink – Day 20: Curiosity

Day 20: Talk about something within kink/bdsm that you’re curious about/don’t understand. I can’t write this from the “What I don’t understand,” perspective. I just don’t think that way. If it’s not something I enjoy/want to do or don’t get, but others do… ~shrug~  Who cares if I don’t get…

30 Days of Kink – Day 19: Unexpected Improvements

Day 19: Any unexpected ways kink has improved your life? If so, what are they? I can’t say that it was particularly unexpected…I mean the desire for hot sex was why I got interested in BDSM in the first place, but I think I was surprised at how much I…

Sinful Sunday – Scavenger Hunt: Oil Refinery

As promised in this post, we managed to pull off another Scavenger Hunt there by the Oil Refinery. Oil Refinery isn’t on the Official Scavenger Hunt List, but I hope that Dee will add it. I didn’t get as good a flash as I wanted, because right when I was…

30 Days of Kink – Day 18: Pet Peeves

Day 18: Any kinky/BDSM pet peeves? If so, what are they? I’m not a very peevish person. I don’t let the little things bug me, for the most part, and live by the philosophy that if I can’t change it, let it be, which pet peeves seem to be in…

Alphabet Challenge – P is for Piasa, Pub & Power Plant

We’d had a great day hunting for O’s, and ended up with several P’s as well. We’d started out here, at an Oil Refinery. That was a fortuitous and completely random side-road excursion that turned into several cute pics and even a Scavenger Hunt. (You’ll get to see that later…

Wicked Wednesday – Social Butterfly

I recently saw a tattoo that’s been going around Pinterest: “Accept nothing less than butterflies.” I love that saying, and not just because I vacillate so often between being a butterfly and having butterflies, either. It really does epitomize how I feel about life, and how it should be lived:…